Originally posted by Basher22: 95% chance that your relationship won't work out if you do it. The fact you're even discussing it is a bad sign.
If you do decide to go through with it, it needs to be with a woman neither of you has ANY attachment to at all. No friends. No coworkers.
you're right, i'll get a hooker & double-strap!
This is not true at all. I think everyone should try it once, but you need to know when to stop. If it becomes habit forming, and becomes the basis of your sex life, then your relationship is in trouble.
This thing is you don't want to wake up one day and realize you missed out. Go out and enjoy yourselves, but there are limits. You need to establish that it's just a one time deal.